What do boys say about Boys Council groups?
Here are responses from boys,
9–15 years old, when asked about their experiences with Boys Council groups at their school:
- It is good to know that you are not alone. That people have the same feelings as you.
- I felt opened to talk and share.
- I enjoyed stepping into the truth circle.
- I looked forward to it every Tuesday.
- I felt opened to share because everyone did.
- I thought council was pretty cool. I would do it again.
- We talk about guys stuff; it would’ve been different if girls were there.
- Some discussion topics were personal but I liked that we didn’t have to always share.
- Everyone just became friends.
- It was good to just be guys.
- We were not teased about saying things in the circle.
- Make it longer.
- We could say stuff and feel comfortable.
- We did things instead of just listening.
- (I liked) playing games to learn.
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What topics do boys and young men want to tackle in groups?
When asked what topics to focus on in their groups, they said:
- Focus on teasing
- Bullying
- Having fun
- Anger management
- Girls
- Stress
- Family
- Don’t try to impress
- Getting adults “off your back”
- Fear of the locker room
- Pressure
- Calm down
- Money and work
- Getting respect
- Dating
- Fairness
- How we feel
- Homophobia
- Dealing with #/?!&@! people
- Being bored
- Labels
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